夫妻因洗澡时间产生争执 网友热议生活习惯差异

#网友投稿 Husband (34M) wants me (32F) to shower before he gets home from work I (32F) and my husband (34M) recently got into an argument of this issue. Recently he has said that he wants me to be clean when he gets home from work to increase our chances of spontaneity for "boom boom" and save time because he also has to shower. I feel like that’s an unfair to ask all of the time. I understand to a certain degree, especially on weekdays since I go to sleep earlier than him. We have slightly differing schedules (me:M-F 8-5 and him T-Sun 1-9). Weekends I can stay up with him. We recently got into an argument because he said he gets annoyed that he has to wait on me to shower prior to being in action. I’ll usually ask before we even get close to it if he wants me to shower (our tell if we’re in the mood) so it’s not like we’re getting started and then I abruptly have to stop to shower. I feel like he’s being unreasonable because: I don’t think it’s fair to have to shower before a certain time on the off chance he decides he wants to be piak piak (I have a higher drive and usually am ready whenever and he has a more physical job/has less energy) I then have to wait on him to shower and feels like it’s a little hypocritical Am I making too big a deal? TLDR: Husband wants me to shower before he gets home from work everyday but I feel like that’s unrealistic. Edit: Wow did not expect so many responses. A few things: I shower almost everyday, but I like to shower right before bed My spouse is neurodivergent and has a thing about hygiene This was an argument for the weekends because there isn’t as much of a time constraint for when we have to go to bed I wish I had a nice shower to be able to have both of us in there, alas not possible **丈夫（34岁男）希望我（32岁女）在他下班回家前洗好澡** 我（32岁）和我丈夫（34岁）最近因为这件事吵了一架。 最近他说，他希望自己下班回家的时候我已经洗干净了，这样可以增加我们临时发生“嘿嘿嘿”的机会，也能节省时间，因为他自己也得洗澡。 我觉得要求我一直这样做有点不公平。我能理解在一定程度上这么做，尤其是工作日，因为我的作息比他早，我通常也比他更早睡。 我们的作息时间不太一样：我周一到周五早上8点到下午5点上班，他周二到周日中午1点到晚上9点上班。周末我可以陪他熬夜。 我们最近因为这件事吵起来，是因为他说，他会因为每次想要“行动”之前还得等我洗澡而感到烦躁。 通常我们甚至还没靠近到那个程度时，我就会问他要不要我先去洗澡——这其实是我们判断彼此是不是有兴致的一个暗号。所以并不是我们已经开始了，然后我突然停下来跑去洗澡。 我觉得他有点不讲理，原因是：我不觉得让我在某个固定时间之前洗澡是公平的，因为这完全是在为一个“万一他到时候突然想要亲热”的可能性做准备。我的性欲比他高，而且通常只要他有兴致，我基本随时都可以。而他的欲望比较低，再加上他的工作比较耗体力，所以他本来就没那么多精力。 最后，我自己还得等他去洗澡才能开始，这让我觉得这要求多少有点双标。 **我是不是把这件事看得太严重了？** **TL;DR：**我丈夫希望我每天都在他下班回家之前洗好澡，但我觉得这种要求不太现实。 没想到会有这么多人回复。 补充一些情况：我几乎每天都会洗澡，只是我喜欢临睡前洗。 我的丈夫是神经多样性者，而且他对卫生问题比较在意。这次争论其实是发生在周末，因为周末我们没有那么严格的睡觉时间限制。 如果我们的浴室够大，我倒是很希望我们能一起洗澡，这样就两全其美了，可惜我们的淋浴间没这个条件。** ****广告赞助商，均已上押担保** ✍️投稿文案找：阿峰：@yysd8886 [✍️**东南亚资讯**](https://t.me/yysd8886) 欢迎各大媒体、自媒体转发。为了方便大家转发，我们**不加水印**、对爆料内容**不加原创**。 🌈🌈  **频道广告赞助商**  🌈🌈 😀😀😀😀😀[**9G.COM 全球布局 实力保障**](https://153.43.182.233:18029/?id=516354168) 😀😀😀😀😀[**7T.COM全球最稳的USDT娱乐城**](https://153.43.84.8:18025/?id=668902803) ⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️[**注册即送99U**](https://d9999.shop/) 🤩🤩🤩🤩 [**香港六合彩特码49倍｜真人返水1%｜电子/棋牌/捕鱼返水1.5%｜十三水/德州 无抽佣**](https://153.43.183.234:18029/?id=427914935) 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷[**全网上押1600万U**](https://t.me/bot8gyl?start=P1226) 😀😀😀😀😀😀 [实时返水5.0%秒到账，每日神秘彩金8888U](https://153.43.179.226:18027/?cid=9064857) 😈👿👹👺🤡💩[6G.com大额秒提](https://www.6g006.com/?cid=9553337) 👉👉👉👉 ** ** [**储备100,000,000.00 USDT支持验资** **小程序免密登录，领18U彩金**](https://t.me/hbbcyl_bot?start=3K8u2aRX) 😀😃😄😁[**人民币注册**](https://182838.vip/?id=465400617)[**USDT注册**](https://182838.vip/?id=360945811)[**彩票入口**](https://n9cp2.vip/register/?inviteCode=30851178) 👌😋🤩😊😅[🎁](https://g71111.top/?cid=7544757)[**笔笔送3%💎秒出款 大额无忧👉G73333.TOP**](https://g73333.top/?cid=2086618) 🔡[北极星科技 平台搭建 网站开发](https://t.me/dajian365)** ** [**柬埔寨租车买车收车**](https://t.me/xigangche) 🕐🕑😁😀🤩😨🤔🥳🙄🤯**🕺**[**人民币注册**](https://hq599.com/?cid=9687762)**😘**[**USDT注册**](https://hq599.com/?cid=634364)**🤪**[**首周亏损100%包赔-你下单我买单/大额无忧/无私彩**](https://hq599.com/?cid=634364) 😅😂☺️😉[**NO钱包担保 1000万U信誉保障放心赢**](https://8t234.com/?cid=4533574) **币达加密货币钱包**[**给朋友转 U？给商家付款？**](https://www.bitda.com/app/download) 🇧🇮🇧🇮🇧🇮🇧🇮🇧🇮[**西湖娱乐城贵宾会**](http://xh8155.cc/) 😀😀😀😀😀[**铂莱娱乐城8年老品牌**](http://bolai203.cc/) 8️⃣🔤🔤🔤**千万域名 百亿大盘 顶奢品牌 大户首选入款笔笔加赠3% ****8cc64.cc** 🔠🔠🔠🔠🔠**92.cc连续爆奖**[**PG直营仅此一站**](http://pgyl175.cc/) ⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️😃[**爆分不停 · 大奖来袭｜PG电子火力全开｜点击注册 · 即刻开玩**](https://153.43.88.214:18029/?cid=4053948)[** **](https://www.929155.top/)🥰🥰🥳🤩[**不限地区无需实名**](https://www.929155.top/) **—————广告位招租——**——— ✍️投稿文案找：@yysd8886 👉🏻频道管理：@baoguangjpz 🛎广告招商：@Flau0228